“Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.”
– Lucille Ball

“Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.”
– Lucille Ball

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Mind if I ask you a few questions? You know, to see if we're meant to be friends? Nope? Okay.

Do you feel lost in life? Do you feel trapped, directionless, as if you're going nowhere?

Do you wake up every morning clueless of what to do next?

Do you already have enough, maybe even a lot, but you still feel empty inside?

Are you craving for a sense of fulfillment?

Do you keep comparing your life to other people's, and you feel sorry for yourself?

Do you want to experience the best things out of life, but you don't know how and where to start?

Are you at war with yourself?

Do you crave true love and a peaceful mind?

Is your life is a total mess?

If you feel as if I've been stalking you because I'm describing your life right now, giirl we got to do a lot of spending time together.

Hi! I'm Janine. Welcome to the place for lost souls of females who obviously just forgot how to love themselves. Welcome to The Lily Project.

The High Road Every Woman Must Take

The journey to self-love and living a purposeful life is a path that not most women know the importance of. If you haven't been taking this path, it's not too late. 

A lot of people have been dealing with life without having the right foundation to keep us supported and strong. A lot of them would assume that in order to be happy, successful and fulfilled, one has to be a ll the good things the society tells us - beautiful, skinny, wealthy, charming and talented - and then everything would just fall into place. The thing is, this isn't the real deal to happiness. It's actually better than that. The key to open the door to a great life is this 1 word: self-love

You may ask, why exactly is self-love the key to a great life, Janine?

You see, everything great that you will want to experience in life, whether it is to do the career you love, have a loving family, get a certain dream possession, marry the love of your life, or achieve financial freedom, you will either have to feel afraid, have to risk things, be in scary situations, get hurt, meet a lot of heartless people, lose control, or all of those, for you to achieve these things. These experiences could shake your belief in yourself, resulting for you to not persist in working towards getting those dreams. A way to overcome these obstacles a lot easier is to have a strong armor of self-love. It's the love of one's self that makes the burden lighter. The journey a lot easier. It's the one things that keeps you feeling good despite the hindrances and challenges. It's self-love that makes it all possible.

Think about it.When you go towards a dream career and a financial goal, predictably, challenges, failures and pressures will come. Handling them will be a lot easier if you feel good, and you know you're there for yourself willing to you help through it all. 

When you want to improve physically and mentally, you will have to go through so many uncomfortable situations to be able to achieve your dream self. You need to watch your diet, exercise more, and be persistent. It's going to be real hard. How do you make things bearable? Surely, being nice and loving to you will work wonders. 

When you're in the search for the love of your life, chances are, you will meet someone who will love you or someone who will hurt or take advantage of you. If you love yourself the way you want to be loved, if you've shown yourself the kind of love that you dream of getting, you'll only likely to accept that special kind of love too. If some person won't give it to you, it will be easier for you to move on, and wait for that love deserving for you. You know your worth, and you will not bargain.

When you realize that the world needs you, that the world needs more of your joy, love and happiness, you can give it easily if you love yourself. You cannot give what you don't have. If you love yourself, you will have the ability to contribute to the world in your own special way.

Imagine that. Changing the world just because you love yourself. Doesn't that thought blow your mind?

Don't mistake self-love with selfishness though. A lot of people gets them mixed up. They're totally 2 different things. The first one spreads good vibrations to the world while the second gives the bad. We're aiming for the good energies here. 

A lot of people are too busy working out their relationships with other people, when they don't realize that they've been neglecting the most important relationship of all - their relationship with themselves. Are you one of them? If you are, you can change that. It's gonna magical.

Let me share with you a little something about me. I used to really hate life. I used to hate myself. I don't like what I look like, I hate my guts, I hate how lazy (that's what my parents keep on telling me and it stuck with me), selfish, worthless, and endless things I was. I kept comparing my life to other people's lives who have the things that I want. Add to that the series of unfortunate events that happened. 

Those had gone on for a while. But one day, I heard somebody said that we, in fact, have full responsibility for our lives, no one else. That we can, in fact, change the events that are happening to our lives. That was the time that I had an epiphany that maybe, I'd been living like this - in misery - because I'm allowing it to happen to me. I've been accepting of bad energies, when in fact, I have my own mind. I have the control. Why just go with the flow? Why don't I take initiative?

So one day, I decided that I am going live a life that I will truly fall in love with.

And after years of trying to make that happen, I discovered something. A lesson that changed my whole perspective.

How your reality is right now is a reflection of your inner world.

If your inner world - your mind and your spirit - is in chaos, your outer world will just reflect that. That's it. That's where all the bad stuff were coming from. Predictably, the solution to a messed up outer world is to get your inner world in balance. That can be accomplishing through nourishing your soul, healing yourself, changing your beliefs and your perspective - completely loving yourself.

I spent the past few years healing myself. Changing myself. Loving myself. Reshaping my inner world. After that magical and adventurous journey, my life changed completely. Today, I am truly happy and at peace.  I get to attract the people, events, and opportunities that I truly need and want. I wake up everyday feeling fulfilled and successful even though I live a simple life. That doesn't mean my life is perfect though. It's never going to be. It's life. I have been facing a lot of challenges, but guess what? They don't eat me alive anymore. In fact, they made my life better, by shaping me better. Challenges are great teachers. 

Today, I accept only the best things life has to offer. Because that's what I deserved. And you deserve that too. 

The question is, are you ready for the journey? Are you ready to take action? Because I'll be here to guide you. You ready?

Here's the first step: Be mindful of how you treat yourself.

Do you really know yourself? Do you really know what you want and who you want to become? Do you give yourself the chance to do the things that would make your heart explode with joy? Do you do for yourself what you would do for someone you love? If not, start figuring out the answer to those questions, and intentionally find ways to create the life you want, according to your own terms. Keep on finding out the reason why you're here and pursue that purpose you have for this world.

Are you ready to start becoming your own best friend and start living a life with intentions? Let me help you with that.

Let's start by me inviting you to our community of lilies by joining our Lilies facebook group! Be part of our collective of self-lovers and lady dreamers!

Second, sign up on the waiting list of my upcoming eBook entitled "The Lily Perspective". This eBook will show you the steps in loving yourself. 

Join the waiting list and get updated when the eBook is done!

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Lastly, here are some of my articles to help you get started to your journey to "lily-ness".

Hey there, new friend! I'm Janine, and I'm so so so happy that you're here!

Today will be an extraordinary day for you. Today, I'll introduce you to a new journey that you could take that could transform your life into something magical. Today, you'll know about The Lily Project.

What exactly is The Lily Project?

The Lily Project is the journey to self-love. 

A lot of people have been dealing with life without having the right foundation. A lot of them would assume that in order to be happy, successful and fulfilled, one has to be beautiful, skinny, wealthy, charming and talented, and everything would just fall into place. But really, this isn't the real deal to happiness. It's this 1 word: self-love. I'll elaborate on this one in a few.

But first, is The Lily Project for you? If you can relate to any of the following, then the answer is yes:

      • You feel lost in life. You feel trapped, as if you're going nowhere. You're directionless. You wake up every morning clueless of what to do next.
      • You have enough, maybe even a lot, but you still feel empty inside. 
      • You crave for a sense of fulfillment.
      • You keep comparing your life to other people's, and feeling sorry for yourself.
      • You badly want to experience the best things out of life, but don't know where and how to start.
      • You are at war with yourself.
      • You crave true love and a peaceful mind.
      • You're life is a total mess.

If you feel as if I've been stalking you because I'm describing your life right now, giiiiirl we got to do a lot of spending time together. Keep reading.

You might be wondering, why exactly is self-love the key to a great life?

You see, everything great that you will want to experience in life, whether it be to do the career you love, get a certain dream possession, have a loving family, marry the love of your life, or achieve financial freedom, you will either have to feel afraid, have to risk things, be in scary situations, get hurt, meet a lot of heartless people, lose control, or all of those for you to get them. These experiences could shaken your belief in yourself. A way to overcome these obstacles a lot easily is to have a strong armor of self-love. It's the love of one's self that makes the burden lighter. It's the one that keeps you feeling good despite the hindrances. It's self-love that makes it all possible.

Think about it. When you go to school and aim for that award, encouragement and support help bigtime. But what if nobody's there to give it to you? Perhaps your parents are busy. Or your friends don't have the same enthusiasm. Where will the push come from? If you love yourself, you easily be your own cheerleader. 

When you go towards a dream career and a financial goal, predictably, challenges, failures and pressure will come, and it handling them will be easier if you feel good, and you are willing to help yourself through it all. 

When you want to improve physically and mentally, you will have to go through so many uncomfortable situations to be able to achieve your dream self. How do you make things bearable? Surely, being nice and loving to you will work wonders. 

When you search for the love of your life, you will meet a lot of people who may hurt you, or may take advantage of you. But if you love yourself the way you want to be loved, you experience the kind of love that you dream of getting, and if some person won't give it to you, you move on. Self-respect and dignity is much more important to you than attention.

When you realize that the world needs your help, that the world needs more of your joy, love and happiness, you can give it easily if you love yourself. You cannot give what you don't have. If you love yourself, you will have the ability to contribute to the world in your own special way.

Imagine that. Changing the world just because you love yourself. Doesn't that thought blow your mind?

Don't mistake self-love with selfishness though. A lot of people gets them mixed up. They're totally 2 different things. The first one spreads good vibrations to the world while the second gives the bad. We're aiming for the good energies here. 

A lot of people are too busy working out their relationships with other people, when they don't realize that they've been neglecting the most important relationship of all - their relationship with themselves. Are you one of them? If you are, you can change that. It's magical.

Let me share with you a little something about me. I used to really hate life. I used to hate myself. I don't like what I look like, I hate my guts, I hate how lazy (that's what my parents keep on telling me and it stuck with me), selfish, worthless, and endless things I was. I kept comparing my life to other people's lives who have the things that I want. 

Can you relate? 

That had gone on for a while, until one day I heard somebody said that we, in fact, have full responsibility for our lives, no one else. That was the time that I had an epiphany that maybe, I'd been living like this because I'm allowing it. I have my own mind. I have the control. Why just go with the flow? Why don't I take initiative?

So one day, I decided that I am going live a life that I love.

And after years of trying to make that happen, I discovered something. A lesson that changed my whole perspective.

How your reality is right now is a reflection of your inner world.

If your inner world - your mind and your spirit - is in chaos, your outer world will just reflect that. The solution to a messed up outer world is to get your inner world in balance. Nourish your soul. Heal yourself. Change your beliefs and your perspective. Completely love yourself.

I spent the past few years healing myself. Changing myself. Loving myself. Reshaping my inner world. After that magical and adventurous journey, my life changed completely. Today, I am truly happy and at peace.  I get to attract the people, events, and opportunities that I truly need and want. I wake up everyday feeling fulfilled and successful even though I live a simple life. That doesn't mean my life is perfect though. It's never going to be. It's life. I have been facing a lot of challenges, but guess what? They don't eat me alive anymore. In fact, they made my life better, by shaping me better. Challenges are great teachers. 

Today, I accept only the best things life has to offer. Because that's what I deserved. And you deserve that too. 

The question is, are you ready for the journey? Are you ready to take action? Because I'll be here to guide you. You ready?

Here's the first step: Be mindful of how you treat yourself.

Do you really know yourself? Do you really know what you want and who you want to become? Do you give yourself the chance to do the things that would make your heart explode with joy? Do you do for yourself what you would do for someone you love? If not, start figuring out the answer to those questions, and intentionally find ways to create the life you want, according to your own terms. Keep on finding out the reason why you're here and pursue that purpose you have for this world.

Are you ready to start becoming your own best friend and start living a life with intentions? Let me help you with that.

Let's start by me inviting you to our community of lilies by joining our Lilies facebook group! Be part of our collective of self-lovers and lady dreamers!

Second, sign up on the waiting list of my upcoming eBook entitled "The Lily Perspective". This eBook will show you the steps in loving yourself. 

Join the waiting list and get updated when the eBook is done!

* indicates required



Lastly, here are some of my articles to help you get started to your journey to "lily-ness".